Men, just get a divorce, she's not your women if she doesn't support you on your dreams. Your marriage is a fail. How did you even endure her until now? A workshop is a dream for all the men and if now's the time do build it, do it, just do it. When we were younger, we were competing on who has the biggest d*ck, after that it comes an age when were are competing on who has the best workshop. A man without a workshop is like a teenager without a d*ck. So take that f*cking loan and get it done. As I get the interest rate is not a problem for you, it is not even that big. In Finland (where I live) for a 30k loan you'll return somewhere between 130-200 euros monthly. The loans are just what you need for accomplishing a dream, some good offers are on https://www.lainaailmanvakuuksia.fi/lainaa-30000/ . Invest in everything that makes you more confident and boosts your testosterone. I recently bought a Ford Raptor with the help of a loan and some money that I put aside. This car made my balls gain some more kilos.